how do people classify yourself?!

when I was a kid, one of my brother´s little friend called me a bitch... that episode lays in my memory as if it was today just yet!!! I had never heard that from anyone! ´till that point at least... but at that time, that word for me, made no sense whatesoever, ´till I saw my cousin coming up to the little boy and slapping the shit out of his face....
I felt good! I felt protected! and I also felt that was not something nice to say about a girl...

some time ago, probably something close to 2 years ago, someone told me I was just as the cashier girl at the bakery store... not wondering too much about that, I knew it was something to make me feel bad... and as I had already been a cashier lady, that just didn´t knock me at all... I had been there! I know the value of everyone in the circle of life anyway...

last week, someone else told me I was the point B of the question... I know I might be twisting things a bit on this one... but the thing is: I AIN´T NO POINT B at all !!!!

now, coming to think of all this, yeah, it´s important to know what the people think about you, sure! But you know what?!?! It´s much better to register THE GOOD things people say about you... and the GOOD actions the people will take to protect you! to show how much they love you! how much they care about you!!! such as the reaction my cousin had over 10 years ago... and such as some real cool words I also heard last week from a friend:

- you´re so cool!
- you´re beautiful!
- you´re smart!
- you´re talented!
- you deserve the best from life!

flattering huh?!

so, you know you are good!!! you know so!!!
my hint for you on this one?! people that will not acomplish you on the good things you have, and will be pointing out the bad things you might just do, are just plain old JEALOUS!!!!! might even be scared that you´ll shine more than they can take........ so they try to make you feel bad about yourself.......
don´t ever let those rude people offend you with their rude words... because that´s what their plans are... instead of crying around,
just BE ALL THAT YOU CAN BE!!!!!
SHINE BABE!!!!! SHINE!!!!!!

ps: thanks pluto!!! =P